Grief can be defined as the natural reaction to loss. Pain is a universal and personal experience (Mayo Clinic, 2014). Individual experiences of grief vary and are influenced by the nature of the loss (Mayo Clinic, 2014). There are many different theories that have attempted to explain the complex process of grief and loss. Theorists such as Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, William Worden, and John Bowbly explain in their theories how they believe an individual goes through the grieving process. In this essay I will focus on William Worden's theory and discuss the process for a child aged nine to eleven. Nurses work in many situations where they observe patients and their families as they experience grief and loss. For patients to receive maximum care, it is critical that nurses have a thorough knowledge and understanding of these theories and the stages of grief and loss to facilitate support for their patients and families. William Worden (1996) explains that grief is the adaptation to a loss. After studying Worden's theory, I understand that there are four tasks a person must perform in order for the grieving process to be concluded and “balance to be restored” (Worden,1996). In his theory, Worden makes it clear that the tasks are in no particular order. Worden also recognizes that some individuals may need to revisit certain tasks over time, that pain is a personal experience, and that it is difficult to regulate a time frame for completing pain-related tasks. Worden's (1996) theory provides four fundamental tasks of grief that he believes must be completed for a person or family system to return to balance and successfully grieve a loss. These......middle of paper......Riely, 2012). Nurses can take care of themselves through debriefing with colleagues, having relaxation time for themselves and ensuring they have adequate time off. Employee assistance and counseling programs are also available to provide specific assistance to prevent nursing burnout. In conclusion, pain is a universal and personal experience. Every child will experience pain differently. For patients to receive maximum care, nurses need in-depth knowledge and understanding of the theories and stages of grief and loss. Through the implementation of the practical nursing strategies that have been proposed, the nurse can provide the best possible care to the child and his family. they are experiencing grief and loss in an intensive care setting while simultaneously completing William Worden's four essential tasks necessary for a child to grieve successfully.