However, they may feel uncomfortable being open and honest about their desires and experiences. For example, if a woman wants a simultaneous experience with a woman and a man, she may feel embarrassed about revealing her desire. Fear comes from judgment and ridicule in desiring an experience that society may deem abnormal. Furthermore, women who engage in personal stimulation such as masturbation are considered abnormal. However, many women find pleasure in engaging in sexual behaviors in an individualistic manner