I think I have strong interpersonal communication skills and this has helped me have better values, beliefs and attitudes about things and people in life. I used to depend on people's opinion and confirmation. Instead of asking myself first if I like something, I would ask others or think about how others would perceive the situation. According to Gardner, author of the book Frames of mind, I had low interpersonal intelligence (Gardner,16). Gardner defines intrapersonal intelligence as “sensitivity to our feelings, our desires and fears, our personal stories, awareness of our strengths and weaknesses, our plans and goals (Gardner, 3).” But over time I began to develop my intrapersonal